Merry Christmas And Happy Holidays , Even If Theyre Not What They Used To Be

     Let me start by saying that this post will be different from the usual memories that you'll find here weekly. I've often shared with you the things that bring joy, that may make you laugh, and are sometimes a bit unusual. I've posted about holiday family dinners, family traditions at Christmas and other things that either interest or bore readers. But as time goes on, the memories for some are just that: memories.
     We've all seen as we've aged that things often aren't what they used to be. The events of life change us, especially when there has been more loss than there is gain, or when that special someone is no longer there to share in those special holidays and events with us. We want to hit the brakes and slow down the calendar. But unless we find some sort of miracle way of doing that, things will surely keep changing.
     I'm writing this because almost every year we're told that many people deal with depression during the holidays and there are many who consider, attempt, or sadly succeed at suicide or harming themselves. It often happens when someone looks back at Christmas and can't deal with some sort of loss. The loss of family, a career, abilities, health, or many things we can't even fathom would cause someone to lose the will to live. We may know someone who fits the description and we can often make a difference between whether someone has the will to live or to surrender it; or who will make the decision to make the most of things or simply exist. If there is someone that you know who displays that they're having a difficult time, reach out to them. Be a friend and help them through a season that brings joy to most. It may be an elderly neighbor who will have yet another Christmas alone, a co-worker who has difficulty making friends, or a church member who comes and goes and doesn't have much interaction with people. It could be someone with no family at all, whether young or old. We all have the potential to make a difference if we're willing to.
     And for those who are able to cope with such things, thank God for getting you through it all. Take advantage of it when He puts someone in your path or gives you the strength to overcome it. When you see what He can do, you'll find it easier to lean on Him. The holiday seasons come and go, but we don't have to suffer through them or watch someone else struggle with them.  

     To all who take the time to read these posts: Have a Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, or whatever holiday you celebrate. May you all find happiness in the season and beyond.